i am going to address three people in this blog

but they will remain nameless.
when each of them reads what i wrote, they will know its for them, and who the other two are, im sure.
the rest of you will be left guessing.


person 1: I thought you couldn't stand me when i first met you. I got to know the others so fast, and became close with them almost instantly. With us, it took some time, but now, you really are my best friend. There's things that we share, that nobody else in our lives do. Things we've only experienced and things only we understand. You tell me the things I need to hear, and not the things i want to hear. You should be a personal advice-giver, and i believe that solely because i've never gotten a bad, or even anything close to bad, piece of advice from you. You're an incredible person, and everyone that knows you, i guarantee, will agree with me. You're what keeps me believing this worlds not gone dead.

person 2: We've had our rough patches, i think mainly because we're so similar with our personalities. Even though we may butt heads sometimes, I don't know what i would do with out you. You're still so young, but you're so smart. You've learned lessons, and have taught me some too. I wouldn't trade a single memory with you for anything in the world. I'm lucky to have a friend like you. so. lucky.

person 3: and one of the greatest people to ever enter my life. I go crazy every time i realize that i haven't known you long, at all, and yet i feel like ive known you my entire life. you have taught me so much about myself, and the way i am with other people, and have helped me fix the things i have felt needed fixing for a while. you taught me that its okay to love people and its okay to trust people. theres things about me that i know only you can understand, whether you realize it or not. I have never once in my life, been more comfortable with myself or around other people than i am when i am in your presence. i could go on for days about how incredible i think you are, and how i don't understand why you have insecurities. I do not want how close we are to ever diminish. i may sound crazy, but you are a big part of my life, and im sure you know that. i am so grateful to have met you and to have such a caring and loving person in my life and someone to show me light in the things i dislike most in myself. i think you're a better person than most people see. i love you so much, and i always will. there will always be a little section of my heart saved for you. you know i could use somebody, some one like you and all you know and how you speak.

i ran across

a song that i've loved dearly since the first time i heard it over a year ago.
though im not too fond of the band, or some of the members in it, the lyrics have a lot of meaning, and a lot of great memories for me. when i get the chance to, i will type out the lyrics and post them on here, but since its nearly 4 am, and im going to be waking up in about 5 hours, i will do that another night.

i've been incredibly lonely and partially depressed. im still not dealing with somethings the healthiest way or even at all. you would think since its been almost 8 full months, i would know how to live with out you, but its harder than i had expected. so many things remind me of you and everything you taught me. you were the most beautiful person, inside and out, that has ever entered my life. i know all you wanted was for me to be happy, healthy, and safe, and thats what i am doing. i've made so many changes in my life since you left, and the only reason i realized i needed to changed these things, was because of you. I can not thank you enough for what you have done for me and for just being the amazing person you were. i love you so much and i miss you more as the days pass by.


i laugh, because it reminds me everything will be okay.

i love you.
so much.

just. one. person.

I've had this intense feeling of loneliness over coming me lately.
along with another feeling I can't quite put a name to.
I've been feeling weird, not like myself.
I feel like I am messing up things that I love, and that I may lose someone close if I keep it up.
I am not realizing I am doing this till it is already done.
it's really starting to make me not happy.

I am sorry to anyone, predominately one person who knows who he is, that I have been acting weird towards these past weeks.
I've been spending a lot of time completely alone, meaning I've been spending too much time thinking about things and coming up with some absurd things and starting to make my self believe them.
I'm working on changing this. It is going to take time. But it needs to be done.


I haven't been myself, mainly this past 2 weeks.
Something inside me is making me feel different.
I can feel it starting to take over.
But all I want is for it to go away.






once again, I'm sorry.

from this point forward

i am NOT keeping my mouth shut.
this is getting ridiculous, and everyone knows it.
i will stick up for my friends, and my self, whether you want to hear what i say or not.



grow the fuck up and realize what you're doing.

i've come to realize.

that as much as i hate the saying, its true. i am hopelessly single.



i guess i've always been that way. i just never wanted to admit it.


bad night.

so its been a while

lets see.

i've decided to move to indianapolis.
ill be living there hopefully within the next 6 months to a year.
i've come to realize that i am happy with the person i have become/i am becoming.
its now been about 2 months since i've talked to my sister.
im proud of my self for standing up for what i think is right.
i have decided to make my self more "worldly", as drew put it, and am starting to read more and watch more movies.
im finally making that step to make myself happy.
its about damn time.




in other news.
this weekend was one of the best i've had in a long time.
i saw my babes from indianapolis.
met some chill new people.
got hit on by one drunk guy, and was offered into a hotel room and beer by another guy (don't worry, i declined.)
and the aftermath i am currently feeling, is not cool, but was totally worth it.
i have two things left to say:
1: I'm trying to fucking sleep.
2: stagefrightbrett.





i love my life.
end of story.